Turns Out, I'm the Grown-Up | Volume 1, Edition 12

In this edition of Lead Anew: Insights and Growth, I delve into a realization that often strikes you between your third cup of coffee and the moment you’re asked for advice, you feel unqualified to offer. It’s the day you realize that no one else is stepping up to make the significant decisions. It’s your turn now. You’re the grown-up, and surprisingly, you’re doing just fine.

I used to believe that adulthood came with a specific set of tools: unwavering confidence, meticulously managed calendars, and the ability to fold fitted sheets without shedding a tear. I assumed that when you were “in charge,” you’d simply know what to do. However, leadership, like life, isn’t scripted. And more often than not, I’ve learned to lead through trial and error, and even midnight google searches.

It gradually crept up on me. Initially, it was small decisions, budgeting better, advocating for myself, and prioritizing rest over hustle. Then came the significant ones: leaving draining roles, returning to school after decades, and speaking up in rooms where I used to remain silent. No one explicitly gave me permission; I simply started acting like the person I wanted to become.

Sometimes, being the grown-up means giving yourself the advice you’d offer a friend, and then taking it. It means making tough calls with a compassionate heart, owning your choices, time, and peace. And when everything feels uncertain, it means deciding anyway.

There’s a quiet strength in realizing that you’re your own anchor. You can comfort yourself, course-correct, and keep going. Your voice matters, and your instincts are worth trusting. I still seek guidance from mentors and ask questions, but I no longer assume that everyone else knows more than me.

Leadership doesn’t mean having all the answers; it means creating a space where others can ask questions as well. It means modeling self-trust and humility, and knowing when to say, “I don’t know, but I’ll figure it out.” Turns out, grown-ups do that quite often.

If you’re waiting to feel ready, to feel like a “real” adult or a “real” leader, consider this your gentle reminder: you already are. You’re the one making the coffee, making the calls, and showing up with intention. That counts more than you know.

You’re wiser than you realize and stronger than you believe. Continue to lead, make decisions, and grow, and don’t forget to give yourself credit. You’re the grown-up now, so keep leading (and growing) anew.

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